Do Women Really Care About Size?

That’s how we judge things… by feel.

Yes, we generally like fit guys, but we like it when they feel fit, not just when they ‘look’ fit.

Now, getting back to the topic at hand…

The answer to the question "Does Size Matter?" is YES, but not in the way you think.

To us, what’s important is that it feels big, not what it looks like in a picture. Generally speaking this means 'girth' more than it does 'length'. In fact, according to Amazon the most popular length of a dildo is around 6.5 inches... Not the crazy sizes you may have seen on-line on certain websites.

Also fun fact, research shows about 80% of men are growers. Smaller flaccid penises often grow the most (up to 86% increase), while larger flaccid ones grow less (around 47%). You really can’t judge by the locker room.

What's more, a large surveys of over 50,000 women, around 84% of women reported being satisfied with their partners size, with only about 14% wanting larger and 2% wanting smaller.

This leads me to some surprising research; did you know that a major  research review published in 2023 found that after reviewing medical data of over 55,000 men average erect penis length increased by 24% between 1992 and 2021 (from ~4.8 inches to ~6 inches). Researchers suspect environmental factors like hormone-disrupting chemicals in plastics and pesticides may be playing a role.

The bottom line is that many studies find that factors like emotional connection, technique, overall attraction, and relationship quality far outweigh size in terms of a women's happiness in bed.

 
My friendly advice is that as a general rule of thumb, big may look good in movies, but women tend to go by feel, whether it’s volume, size, or anything else, not necessarily by ‘look.’

Hope this helps,

Lisa